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I went to watch this movie with college buddy last day before work resume.

Oh well, it wasn’t that bad as many critiques or reviews say but it’s entertaining enough for me~

Kate Hudson and Anne Hathaway are both my favorite actresses so I decided to watch this film after I saw the trailer. Though I have to admit Kate’s style is quite disappointing. Her bangs and hay-like straight hair… probably the worst blonde I have ever seen on screen… While on the contrary, Ann looks more natural and SKINNY!

Anyway, it led me think about many of my fights with my best friend

Not that many and that outrageous, but the frequency definitely increases as we grow older. Nothing won’t change and this rule certainly applies to human as well. And change or grow up aren’t always good things…

Last week YU was mumbling about her pregnancy and stuffs on msn. Suddenly YU asked me to have a baby like her. It all sounded very simple, get a man, try to get laid, and boom! Baby! I told her I no longer want any baby AGAIN and she finally realized I have always meant it when I said it. And panic struck her (I guess)

She started on how being a strong single career woman was her dream and I should never steal her dream and live my life in it. So I should get pregnant like she is now so we both are on the same page.

Then I had to start on how getting a man, a baby, a family was always MY dream and I DO NOT GET TO FULFILL IT EITHER.

I think either I debated too well or pregnant woman has lost most of the brain function so I easily shut her up.

It actually hurt me though. I have to admit. More like a stab right into my chest. So I totally agree with the movie that sometimes the best friend will be the greatest enemy of all since she/he would know where to hurt you the most without giving you a chance to struggle for an excuse.

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總而言之  最好的朋友就是最狠的敵人

好友YU因懷孕情緒很差
原本就詭異扭曲的個性現在變本加厲
那天在發現我重申我不準備結婚不想要BABY後
很激動的（想像中因為是在MSN上）說我不可以這樣做
因為這是他小時候的夢想
他現在沒辦法實現  我也不能！

我只有很不爽但很平靜的回答他  結婚生BABY也是我的夢想
我也沒有辦法實現我的夢想
非不為也  實不能也

要是以前的我  應該會怒到被氣哭之類的
現在只是淡淡的回答他一句   堵的他無話可說
我想除了我的修養越來越好以外
還有孕婦沒有邏輯＋不攻自破

沒反應卻不代表沒受傷不難過
有時候朋友一句話可以比敵人槍林彈雨的掃射還痛
我想是這部片想要表達的
雖然隱藏在凱特稻草般的亂髮及安的大嘴下

我想男人是無法理解女人間那種若有似無的敵意
這一秒好的像連體嬰  下一秒張牙舞爪的像八輩子仇人