this morning started chatting with Y about her japanese coworkers - 2 housewives
one poor and one rich
but no matter what they both have issues with their family
one told Y today she is separating with her husband and moved out with 3 kids
saying her family in jap is so rich that she is actually the only one working in her whole family
and now she ends up with no $$ 3 kids not finacially secured and divorcing
then Y told me how she now feels sad
that her no believing in men is actually what we women have to do
even though she really wanna believe in her husband she thinks its better if she doesnt
in the end no matter what we are still on our own and cant depend on anyone else
so she doesnt wanna be housewife or have baby
i dont agree though, like what we always do: disagree with each other :P
i think it all depends on from what point we look at it
financially, we now dont need men. if alone i make enough to feed myself
i think i will even be ok if i have 1 kid if i dont buy all the LV dior chanel
for Y too, she doesnt need a husband financially
but she needs him mentally cos they love each other(well i assume they do :P)
nowadays marriage is no longer a trade off
women dont look for whole life free rice bowls
while we hope our men dont ask for a maid or a baby machine
so we only need each other if there's love
as i told Y when praying to any god i always ask for good career good grades good school
i never ask for "XX never changes" cos i know its not in my control so i dont even need to hope
so i think being a housewife nowadays is nothing big deal or something woman should avoid
as long as there's love and care, it worths
and since now i dont even want any love..... the conclusion is simple
早上和已婚幸福婦人Y聊天
說到他們公司日本主婦們 為了丈夫家庭犧牲 都搞到不是很幸福
一個最近帶他小孩搬出來 快離婚了 三個小孩
雖然她有在工作 可是看他綽號也知道
做得不過是不需要腦的助理工作 還做不好
Y說 他感覺很心寒 覺得他一輩子沒辦法相信男人
可是其實還是希望能有一個男人可以讓他相信 像她老公
結果今天看他同事這樣 他覺得他不相信是對的 還是要靠自己
不要當個家庭主婦 生小孩 拖累自己
其實我並不是反對全部 我只是不同意主婦跟生小孩那部份
我覺得 要看你用甚麼角度看事情
$$上 我們不需要男人 我們可以自己過的很好
如果我可以降低我的物質需求 我相信加養一個小孩 也不會讓我陷入財務上的困境
Y也一樣 他哪需要老公養 可是她需要她老公 因為他們之間有愛
現在婚姻已經不是找尋長期飯票
女人也不希望男人是要個傭人 還是只是子宮一個
彼此需要 是因為愛
當我每次拜拜求神時 我向來只會求說給我好事業 好成績 好學校
從不求 求XX永不變心 因為我知道 沒有人 就算是神 可以保證誰永遠不變
操之不在己 怎麼求都沒有用的
家庭主婦又怎樣 如果有愛 女人總是很輕易就可以克服所有困難
只有有愛 就值得
而既然我不希冀愛 那我的結論 就比普通人更簡單了 
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